Friday, August 12, 2011
I recently patched up with my husband after a long term quarrel, want to make things right, what should I do?
On his first available day off (as you don't want to upset him - but as soon as possible also) sabotage him. Kidnap him. Take him somewhere he's been wanting to go, but hasn't had the time. Tell him you have 1/2 the day planned out, and take him somewhere he wants to go, but doesn't realize he wants to go. (Like fishing, golfing, or even to an arcade place). Let him be worry free for a few hours, relaxing. Then, have a nice dinner. Either takeout, or homemade, as long as you know he likes it, fix/buy that for him. Then, talk to him about your deepest concerns over dinner. When dinner is over, no matter what was said, and if you're completely angry that he just doesn't get it, or not, go up to him, hug and kiss him, and tell him you love him no matter what life deals you. Then, do a little married adult action with him, and have fun. When everything is said and done, you'll both be happy for a little, and the communication door has been opened. Keep it open. Keep talking, and sabotaging his days off when needed. Makes marriage fun and eventful. I'm married 14 years now - and all is well. Good luck.
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