Is this weird for a 16 year old?

Not weird, but different. You do not live the perfect family life with the stay at home baking cleaning mom equal hour working father a couple siblings and the picket fence white house. Of course no families are like that, but i was mistaken when i said perfect family, because if you love and appreciate the life you are living and the family you are given and lucky to have any at all, then it is perfect. That would be a perfect family. And basically that is what you have, or what you could have, if you believe it is.